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There are these two friends of mine. I met them for the first time like two months ago.  Both are singles. The man was highly unstable, he has high standards (but low in self confidence even though he seemed sure about himself), perfectionist (though I think it bears the same meaning as coward), and attractive in a damaged-goods way. I think he has some kind of syndrome. I actually read about that, but I forgot the term. I'll tell you as soon as I remember it. :p

The woman was traumatized by her incapability to understand men.  She is too sensitive and what would you call it? Afraid to make any move without a long long long consideration.  I think she would need more than one period of Hajj before she actually admitted that she was in love.  She is suspicious all the time and for some reasons, she feels quite comfortable with her single life.  However, in my opinion, she just wants to play it safe. She thought about all the loss, sadness, and sacrifices associated with relationships, but she failed to recognize the benefits of having someone.

I realized that she likes him.  My intuition is accurate, trust me. He takes it as compliments but no more.  It could not be more wrong.  She keeps giving him attentions out of love and all and he keeps receiving them out of pride (like a king accepting tributes) because I KNOW he does not have any romantic feeling towards her (plus, he is lethal).  They are not in the same page. Should I warn her? She'll probably deny my assessment and hate me for bringing it up, but hey...she can hate me all she likes as long as she does not fall in love (further) to that man, right?

So, dam-it or damn-it?
Dya